LOVE ADVICE. HOW IT WORKS:

1. Read the letter below asking for advice about love.
2. Click on a heart to give your advice.
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Dear Anyone,

My boyfriend and I used to have a “normal” sex life when we started dated. About six months into the relationship, though, he started asking me to dress up for him. Fair enough. First, he wanted me to dress up as a school girl, then as a nurse, then in lingerie and heels. I was game – no problem. But recently, if I haven’t dressed up for him, and I initiate something physical (say, just wearing a T-shirt and shorts), my boyfriend wants me to actually get out of bed, dress up, and then come back to bed! A few times I’ve agreed, but other times I just roll over and tell him to forget it. It’s starting to make me think that he doesn’t actually want ME, but just some stereotypical porn fantasy. So, how should I respond to this? Honestly, I can’t see myself dressing up before sex for the rest of my life.

Overdressed in Whistler

WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

	A:	Dump your boyfriend’s sorry behind. If he only wants porn star caricatures, then maybe he should just buy a few online porn subscriptions – alone.
	B:	Communicate. Why speculate what your boyfriend’s thinking when he can give you the straight dope? His answer will tell you what to do.
	C:	Your boyfriend wants you, but he just likes a little healthy fantasy. If you want to keep him, you’ll just have to cave in to his fetishes.
	D:	Try to convince your boyfriend that wearing a T-shirt and shorts is role playing, too. That way, everyone’s a winner.

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