I recently met someone whom I felt an immediate attraction for through a mutual friend. He says that he is falling for me because he loves my personality and has a lot of respect for me. I am starting to feel the same way about him and am starting to become very attached to him. He tells me that he has never met a girl like me with my personality, and that he could see us being together in the future. Unfortunately, he lives across the country and has another friend who he is close to as well. Although he claims that he does not have strong feelings for her like he does for me, he still spends a lot of time with her and says that she is constantly asking him for sexual favors. He told me that he is constantly resisting her but recently said that he might give in. I do not know what to do, so I gave him an ultimatum and basically told him to choose because it was unfair that he tells me one thing and then another - and he chose me. I feel a bit betrayed here and don't have the same respect for him that I did earlier in our relationship. Should I not continue talking to him? I believe I deserve better than this and I need help because I do not know what I should do because at the same time I don't want to let him go.
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