For a year, I was in what I thought was a solid relationship. About a month ago, he told me we were nothing but friends with benefits. I don't beleve him because a lot of the things we did together were things that couples do. He was the first man I ever felt completely comfortable with.
One night during sex, he told me he loved me and asked me if I loved him. I told him yes. After that night, he would not return my phone calls and when I did see him, he seemed uncomfortable around me. I finally sent him an e-mail telling him how I felt and asking him what was going on. That is when he said we were nothing but "friends" and that because of my feelings, he no longer wanted to speak with me. I was totally blindsided by this.
My question is, how do I move on? I'm having a very difficult time dealing with this situation because it feels like a part of me has died. I've finally given up hoping he will come to "senses" and want me back, but I also feel that he was my only chance at love and marriage. How do I let go without giving up on love?
Blindsided and Lost