Dear Anyone,
My boyfriend was a working musician when I met him 11 years go. He is quite talented and could go far if he committed himself to it. We have been through a lot in our years together and have some strong bonds. My problem is that over the years, he seems to put less and less effort into his musical career and is, in fact, now delivering pizza for a living. This is disappointing to me, and frankly, somewhat embarrassing. I should mention that I am 53 and he is 39. I am a successful, highly paid professional but money isn't really the issue. I feel that he has chosen a job that is far beneath his abilities and talents and I can't accept it. I feel that if I really loved him, what he does to earn money shouldn't matter. But I have to admit, it bothers me and is starting to cause problems between us as he feels that I am judging him and being elitist. I'd just like to get some objective opinions on how best to deal with this issue.
But I Didn't Order A Pizza
