I was dating this guy from my work for a couple of months. In September I had to go back to college and he had to stay in the city to work his two jobs. We tried the long distance thing; we would talk a lot on the phone and more than a few times I tried to go home to visit him. However something always came up that I couldn't get home. The only time I got home was when he had to go to LA for a family emergency; he has also been dealing with a lot of family problems at home. Finally he stopped calling for a while and I would call him; he seemed normal like he was still into me but he just had stopped initiating any phone calls. When he did call me for like the first time in two weeks at 8:00 in the morning, he broke up with me saying that it just doesn't seem like we have time for the other and we haven't even seen each other in like two months. He said he still likes me and he still wants to be friends. I thought this was a line but to my surprise he called me a couple days later to give me his new number. I said that I was coming home that weekend and we should see each other. We did see each other that weekend, but things were awkward and hard. He said that I should call him. I feel that since he broke up with me he should make the first move towards friendship. He hasn't called since the last time we saw each other and I think about him constantly. But I feel like since he hasn't called its over. I still really miss him though. What should I do? Should I call him? Should I try to get over him? What is the best way to handle this?
i left my heart in san francisco