tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-138823802008-02-09T22:14:30.157-08:00JoelBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13882380.post-1125547982259263562005-09-01T21:12:00.000-07:002005-08-31T21:27:55.530-07:00

Coady of Conduct: Lately, I've been very depressed. I find myself listening to more depressing music, and wearing more black. I broke up with my girlfriend of 18 months just 3 weeks ago, and I think it was a bad idea. I still love her, but the reason I broke up was because her dad wouldn't let her have a boyfriend. Now I'm with another girl, who I feel completely ignores me. She doesn't call, or

bluevespaboytag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13882380.post-1125547923767954532005-09-01T21:11:00.000-07:002005-08-31T21:28:55.896-07:00

Coady of Conduct: OK, the other day I got in really big trouble at work. I almost got fired (I gave a friend of mine a discount when I shouldn't have). So, I was working the other day and my boss told me to come to his office to discuss my mistake. I got to his office and he told me the only way to keep my job was if I slept with him. But, it gets worse... my boss is 28 and I am 16. The thing

bluevespaboytag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13882380.post-1125547842105186052005-09-01T21:09:00.000-07:002005-08-31T21:15:22.583-07:00

Coady of Conduct: I recently broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years. The relationship was complicated and although I love her, I couldn't continue with her - it was simply one of those "right person, wrong time" things. But I love her and think she's great and want her to be in my life as a friend. She told me in order to be my friend, she had to have time to "get over" me and she would contact

bluevespaboytag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13882380.post-1123736465573341242005-08-11T21:58:00.000-07:002005-08-10T22:03:58.840-07:00

Coady of Conduct: My husband is very critical. He is trying to change, but in the time that we've been married, he has criticized me "out" of fashion. While dating (and before we were married), I was somewhat freakish in the way I dressed. Age naturally began to tone things down, but he criticized me out of thrift shopping and almost anything that is not "safely" alternative. To this day, my

bluevespaboytag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13882380.post-1123736258465937752005-08-11T21:57:00.000-07:002005-08-10T22:01:59.833-07:00

Coady of Conduct: I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a year. We just moved in together and I love him. So what's the problem? I don't like kissing him. He has A LOT of saliva in his mouth. It grosses me out. It's hurting our relationship. I can't talk to him about it. He's very sensitive and I don't want to hurt him. Wet Mouth Punch him in the nuts! No, just kidding. It's not the

bluevespaboytag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13882380.post-1123736213084016952005-08-11T21:55:00.000-07:002005-08-18T20:17:27.976-07:00

Coady of Conduct: My wife left me and our two kids last month and ran off with a man who works with her at a local insurance office. He has been divorced three times, and is the slick, oily and ''too smooth'' type. My wife just got into insurance six months ago to help us out financially. She clearly fell prey to this guy's charms. The children and I have been walking around shell-shocked.

bluevespaboytag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13882380.post-1122534306930634702005-07-28T00:03:00.000-07:002005-08-21T12:00:22.070-07:00

Coady of Conduct: I have a simple question. I have been with my man for 14 years. I am 29. He is 33. I have recently seen for a month straight all kinds of porn he has been watching online (I have been snooping). Then all of a sudden it stopped. Should I be worried he is acting on it out outside the home as well? A Lil' Confused in Bean Town The wisdom of cable television is vast and

bluevespaboytag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13882380.post-1122534183725242742005-07-28T00:02:00.000-07:002005-07-28T00:11:33.176-07:00

Coady of Conduct: I have just broken up with my boyfriend of a year and a half. Although we are both only 18, we were and still are very much in love. We broke up because he can't get his all-time dream of traveling the world out of his head. I told him I would go with him, but he will not let me drop out of uni, as I have a scholarship. We had a big talk a few days after the break up and we

bluevespaboytag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13882380.post-1122534116240139222005-07-28T00:01:00.000-07:002005-07-28T00:17:11.363-07:00

Coady of Conduct: I've known "Denise" for two years. We met through friends, and I've socialized with her at various parties. She recently moved into my neighborhood, and I've bumped into her a couple of times and we've chatted. She's intelligent, attractive and kind. I'm thinking of asking her out, but there's just one thing holding me back: she's in a wheelchair. She's paralyzed from the waist

bluevespaboytag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13882380.post-1121400848924052872005-07-14T21:12:00.000-07:002005-07-14T21:16:51.113-07:00

Coady of Conduct: Me and my dad are having problems. A few days ago, my niece was over for the weekend. My niece got mad at started to yell. I put her on the couch and told her that yelling is bad. Well, my dad comes and yells at her too, but in a meaner way. He started to call me a sh*t and stuff, and then told me that I was stupid or whatever. I told him that whatever he tells me will go back

bluevespaboytag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13882380.post-1121400700783087372005-07-14T21:11:00.000-07:002005-07-14T21:11:40.786-07:00

Coady of Conduct: I was playing spin-the-bottle at my church (don't ask). Anyway, there was this guy named "Bob" and the bottle landed on him. If it lands on a person twice, you have to kiss on the lips. It was the second time. I had a boyfriend, "Larry", when it happened. I feel bad about not telling him, but I don't want him to get mad at me. What should I do? Confused About a "Game"

bluevespaboytag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13882380.post-1121400657001621542005-07-14T21:09:00.000-07:002005-08-21T11:50:37.940-07:00

Coady of Conduct: I was married in 1999 to a beautiful Mexican girl 17 years my junior. Two and a half years into our marriage, we had a beautiful baby girl who is now 3. Seven weeks after our child was born, my wife filed an order of protection against me (it was thrown out of court). My wife never let on that there was a problem in our marriage. On a Tuesday she told me she and our newborn

bluevespaboytag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13882380.post-1120097830293180732005-06-30T19:15:00.000-07:002005-06-29T19:17:30.500-07:00

Coady of Conduct: How can one tell if one really loves someone and want to marry that person? Is it normal for the sexual tension to ease up and become almost non-existent? What if it gets to the point of fantasizing about other people in one's life? If this does happen, what is the best thing to do? Needs Excitement You know you really love someone when at least once a day you find yourself

bluevespaboytag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13882380.post-1120097669881904332005-06-30T19:13:00.000-07:002005-06-29T19:14:29.893-07:00

Coady of Conduct: My sister is a very gorgeous girl. She is 13 and guys that are a lot older than her and much more experienced are getting involved in her life. She thinks I'm just jealous but I just don't want to see my little sister get hurt. She's a virgin, but at the rate she is going, I'm afraid she is going to end up pregnant, etc. She is being very deceitful, mean, and rude lately. I

bluevespaboytag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13882380.post-1119648300599555212005-06-23T14:24:00.000-07:002005-06-26T12:13:27.193-07:00

Coady of Conduct: Not so long ago, I met this guy and he seems to be the man of my dreams. He's handsome, has a secure future, likes me and would like to introduce me to his family. Perfect right? Here's the tricky part... he's in some "problem" right now, because he's on a trip in a foreign country and doesn't have enough money to pay for the hotel. So he asked me to help him. My gut instinct

bluevespaboytag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13882380.post-1119648040110724262005-06-23T14:20:00.000-07:002005-06-25T22:05:24.886-07:00

Coady of Conduct: I'm a sophomore at college. I was wondering if a person's behavior when they are drunk is truly representative of that person. There is a girl that I talk to a lot. However, she shows little reciprocation or interest such as phone calls or instant messages. She enjoys hangin' with her girlfriends, and when I ask her to come out with me to run errands, she refuses. However, on

bluevespaboytag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13882380.post-1119647941695610562005-06-23T14:17:00.000-07:002005-06-24T14:33:18.026-07:00

Coady of Conduct: I'm a 23 year-old woman. I'm told I'm beautiful and intelligent by my friends. The thing is, I usually go out with guys who are not working or going through some difficulties in their lives. I convince myself that the situation will change. Typically, these guys are really in love with me, but my friends think that I settle for less. They always say I can do better and try

bluevespaboytag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13882380.post-1119481474120584232005-06-16T16:04:00.000-07:002005-06-22T16:56:17.740-07:00

Coady of Conduct:I am a 28 year-old woman, and I have been married for four years. My husband and I are planning to have a family very soon, but we have one big challenge: I have a hereditary eye condition and I may lose my sight in the next few years. My vision is already impaired, and I'm worried things might deteriorate quickly. I really want to have a family, but I'm not sure if it's fair to

Joel