OUR ADVICE FOR BRINGING DOWN THE HOUSE:

	A:	Talk to him. He's your dad, and should listen to w ...		34%
	B:	Ignore it and just do what he says. You're moving ...		22%
	C:	Become a bad kid and never follows his rules. That ...		19%
	D:	Make a special effort to give your dad some more a ...		25%
Total Votes: 252

Dear Anyone,

I've been married for 12 years. We have 3 children: 17, 8 & 7, all of which are autistic. All the time we've been together my husband has cheated on me, even with my mother. I've brought the kids up practically alone. He's a heavy drinker and smokes cannabis. He does love the kids. After he had the fling with mum we split up because it was too painful, and my mum moved away. I had been in hospital at the time with a brain hemorrhage. Thankfully I’m ok.

Four months after we split (although he won't leave) I met another man who loves me dearly and wants to take on me and my kids. I’ve been with him 2 years. I also love him; he’s kind, caring and a very stable home loving man. My husband has another woman who is nice. My partner wants to take over the house and payments and is willing to pay my hubby off. I want him to go too, but I feel guilty because I don’t want him to be hurt. I love my partner.

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WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

	A:	Tell your husband to go and bring up the children with your new partner.
	B:	You're still married aren't you? Let your husband stay and put up with it.
	C:	Your husband sounds like a real looser. You should stay as far from him as possible. He's not the kind of guy your kids should have as a role model.

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