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Love Advice

 

OUR ADVICE FOR ASK ME OUT, PLEASE.:
  A:  Take a deep breath and go for it. Ask him out for ...        42%
  B:  Keep flirting until he gets the hint.        27%
  C:  Have a co-worker find out if he interested.        31%
Total Votes: 1217


Dear Anyone,

I've been in a relationship for almost a year. We are living together and engaged and we're very happy. We have disagreements just as every other couple does, but we don't fight like crazy and we honestly love each other. Lately we've been really busy with me working full time and looking at colleges and last night was even more busy than usual. She went to a medical school interview with me (btw I got in YAY!) and then we went to Staples. We got home and we're playing around while making dinner and her phone goes off. Well originally we thought it was mine because we have the same phone. So I opened it up and this girl "H" (is how it's inputted into her phone) had text "i love u" to her. Right outta the blue.. My initial thought was omg wut the hell is this. Then I revamped and thought there must be a good reason for this. So I handed her the phone and told her. She texted the girl (whom she said was a straight child-hood friend) back saying "why did you say that to me?". The girl txt back and said "y r u acting like this?". That freaked me out and I started crying. I mean what did it look like? Then it made it look even more suspicious that every time I tried to take the phone I would find it off and when I turned it on she'd take it away from me. I made her call the girl and she told the girl not to say that to her anymore unless it was in a friend way (and not out of the blue for no reason) and that it caused her & her fiance to fight so don't say it anymore. Now I'm scared to death that she may be cheating on me. And I'm trying so hard to pretend it doesn't bother me. I'm already a worry wart but this just pushed my buttons more. Also because a few months back she ran into the pharmacy and this girl named Honey called her phone and wouldn't tell me what she wanted and Danyell said she didn't know who this girl was... so "H" has me even more worried... Now what?

PS~ I don't know this girl, I don't know anything about her & my fiance hasn't mentioned her before.

Hoplessly Becoming Undevoted

WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

Vote for Option A   
A:  Yup she's cheating! The signs are all there!
Vote for Option B   
B:  She's not cheating! It really was just a friendly thing. Maybe the friend was just thinking of her and wanted to let her know.
Vote for Option C   
C:  Maybe she's cheating. You'll just have to watch for other signs.
Vote for Option D   
D:  So you're in love... where's the trust you're supposed to have for her? Go with your heart in deciding.

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