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OUR ADVICE FOR SAVE ME FROM MYSELF:
  A:  Cut all contacts with everyone you currently know. ...        40%
  B:  People will take advantage of you because they see ...        29%
  C:  Find a supportive group to be a part of like a chu ...        32%
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Dear Anyone,

I am currently married. I have been for a year and a half now. I have known my husband for about five years. Before our relationship I told him about my first love, whom I thought was my soulmate and would one day marry. I never thought that my husband and I would be married. I always told myself I wouldn't marry young, and I question my happiness often and I know my husband sees my unhappiness. I am rarely intimate and often very short with him. I feel that my first love still has feelings for me, even though the situation is more complicated than that, I have strong feelings for someone else. I know it will not go away. I don't know if I should continue to work on my relationship with my husband and hope this is just a thing I'm going through or should I tell him how I feel? I fear if I continue to pretend I am happily married things will only get worse.

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WHAT'S YOUR ADVICE?

Vote for Option A   
A:  Only professional help will work you through this. Seek counseling.
Vote for Option B   
B:  Come clean with your husband and tell him how you feel. At the very least he deserves to know.
Vote for Option C   
C:  Tell your first love how you feel. Maybe it will help you get over it and stay with your husband.
Vote for Option D   
D:  It's not unusual to have regrets in marriage and to pine after your first love. You'll get over it. Hang in there.

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